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sarahhm | so i'm basically wondering whats going on with this guy and me.. like is he just using me for an ego trip? why did he message me what he did? why have his replies been the way they are? i'm asking because i know that doing readings for yourself, there is bias. so i want to get more information so i can make a decision. let me know if you're up for it and what your questions are thank you |
harmonicvibes | I will my question is how does Ivan feel about Nubia? How does Ivan feel about dera? No quote will edit after
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mattva | I got 5 of Wands for you. I don't know if this is necessarily a bad card. Rather it feels more like there are struggles for power and it's mostly asking you to be on your toes when dealing with the person. Hope that helps. I don't need an exchange unless this made sense to you! If it did : I got a text from my ex SV. She always wishes me a happy retro. But our interactions are usually poor if I try to follow up with her. How should I proceed this time ? |
harmonicvibes | Sara. Hmmm I think I would be cautious with this person.have you had a past with him before? He seems to be someone who likes to get back at people if wronged. Is he Libra? He is type to treat ppl how you treat him. I don't necissarily think he's using you. But I think there's some hunch here. He seems to be giving you a second thought or chance. He is a bit egotistical as well so for him its like your attention he feels likes has accomplished obtaining it strokes his ego. I wouldn't give him much thought till he can prove or show he is sincere about his feelings with you without that undertone and hidden side agendas
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sarahhm | @harmonicvibes 9 of swords, judgement, king of wands, justice 2 of pentacles, 9 of wands, 10 of pentacles, queen of cups at this point - got the upper hand. it looks like he's in between both girls and right now.. he's more for -. it looks like something went off with - and unless things change he's going with 0, to him right now there's more potential. he is kinda holding on to - though with that 9 of wands and he's going to basically sit with his thumb up his ass and just wait and see what happens with her but if something doesn't change then he's going to go with - who he thinks theres real potential there. - basically is just 50/50.. see if anything changes the tide. i guess he's just having a seat and waiting for the girls + the universe to make his decision for him. he's holding on though. like someone who wants his cake and eat it too |
sarahhm | @mattva 9 of swords, page of cups, page of swords 7 of pentacles, ace of wands, 9 of cups
you should proceed carefully. it looks like she's trying to reconnect but at the same time.. it's not coming from an intense feeling place, it's a nostalgic memory place.. hmmm i miss him maybe ill message and just see what happens. she's invested but not as much as i think you'd like her to be ideally. on your side though, messaging her back isn't going to do much harm but hold back and stick to your guns. don't fall into it. be happy on your own and savour it and what ever happens happens. but if something does happen, it's going to be from a more cautious place. low and steady. which looking at the spread is a very good thing. so no falling in to bed or anything. tentative is good in this situation i think it's a power struggle too. which bloody sucks cause that leads to game and i don't like games. i have half a mind to just call him out on it next time i have an opportunity (nicely of course), lay things out on the line and just retreat from there. |
sarahhm | @harmonicvibes Hmmm I think I would be cautious with this person.have you had a past with him before? He seems to be someone who likes to get back at people if wronged. Is he Libra? He is type to treat ppl how you treat him. I don't necissarily think he's using you. But I think there's some hunch here. He seems to be giving you a second thought or chance. He is a bit egotistical as well so for him its like your attention he feels likes has accomplished obtaining it strokes his ego. I wouldn't give him much thought till he can prove or show he is sincere about his feelings with you without that undertone and hidden side agendas
------------- not much of a past, not libra. mainly earth heavy and a scorpio moon so i know that if i wrong him (which i haven't) he'll get back at me. hunch.. what do you mean by hunch? yeah we matched on tinder random after not speaking for a while and he messaged me out the blue then next night while i was trying to forget him and i just replied the way hes been replying to me. i'm thinking of throwing the games out the window, laying it out on the line clearly cause mercury is in retrograde so i have absolutely no patience for games or toying or cat and mouse whatever at all. then retreating and see what he does.. would that be a good move? |
sarahhm | bump |
harmonicvibes | ok Sara. So, whatever plan you put in motion you can manifest yourself. I think that your plan to be upfront and honest will be enlightening for him to hear not only for him but you yes, you should be honest and then allow him time to think and do as he wishes in regards to you. Telling the truth about how you feel will be good right now and appreciated on his end. You will also need to be stern, not harsh but stern. Stay objective as well don't sound overly emotional when you reach out. I drew
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sarahhm | @harmonicvibes: thank you very much, next time i have the opportunity to ill take it! do you have another question? did the other reading resonate with you? |
harmonicvibes | I think it did....I am going to re read it. I guess just to clarify so it sounded like from your reading, Ivan has chosen to be with Nubia in the meantime but has feelings for Dera? Also if you don't mind after we are done with exchanges editing the names out
I do have another...will Ivan come to live in the USA again soon? |
harmonicvibes | bump |
sarahhm | @harmonicvibes sorry i was out at the library all day. just saw this. will reply when i get home in an hour x |
sarahhm | @harmonicvibes ace of cups, temperance, 6 of swords! yes he will!!!
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harmonicvibes | Okay, so you think yes he will. I am thrown off by 6 of swords doesn't that mean going away from something like a thought or idea or would it represent him leaving the USA? |
sarahhm | quote: Originally posted by harmonicvibes: Okay, so you think yes he will. I am thrown off by 6 of swords doesn't that mean going away from something like a thought or idea or would it represent him leaving the USA?
6 of swords - its moving away from something. from shoddy waters to calmer waters where there's peace. can mean travelling for peace so to me with the other cards its a yes
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harmonicvibes | Thank you Sara. Let me know if you want to do more exchanges. |